Dating

So we are officially divorced.  It’s been five months and my ex has decided he thinks we should start dating each other.  Really?  Why now?  Why now after everything we’ve been through does he want to try to give me what I asked for all along?  I just wanted some love, affection and some attention.  I wanted to be taken out on occasion.  I was exhausted from working full time and then being a full time mom on my off hours and just wanted a little adult conversation with my husband.  I just don’t get it.  I don’t think my mental capacity can endure much more.  I feel pushed and pulled and I don’t know what way to turn.

I think I’m going to forever let this man make me all dark and twisty.

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