Don't be a Dick
I don't go out often but a couple of weeks ago I did with a friend. We were having a great time. A friend of she and her boyfriends walked in the bar as we were leaving and after being introduced we had a great chat. We planned to hang out the following night as a group. He knows I am married and that dating or "hooking up" was off of the table but there was just something enjoyable about talking to him. I'm 39, really close to turning 40 and this boy is 32, to me just a baby.
The following night he met my friend and I and we talked for hours, he listened to me, I listened to him, we were so at ease it was as if we had known each other for years. It didn't hurt that he threw out a few compliments along the way. I am usually pretty hard on myself and for someone to tell me I'm beautiful and have a great personality is amazing.
The last couple of weeks we have texted back and forth almost every day, just a simple how was your day or to say have a great day. On occasion we would have a short dialog back and forth. I was out with a co-worker last night and he made the effort to stop and join us for a beer where we were then he was off to meet his friends. Cool, casual, friendly.
I invited him over to have pizza and watch a movie today and he responded that he was out with friends. Then texted "you should join us". I texted that maybe I would check in later and see where he was and do that, to which he replied "I would really like to see you but I have life obligations to my friends". Wow! What a dick! WTF did that mean and where did it come from? He invited me out, then pretty much said that he doesn't have time for me and that I'm not his friend. Or did I misinterpret that? I can tell you one thing I already have a husband that is not capable of showing any kind of emotion, I sure as shit don't need a friend to turn from nice guy to dick head in a day.
Moral of the story DON'T BE A DICK!
What started out as a great and productive day went to hell in a hand basket. I thought I was fine. Then after drinking beer home, alone thinking about how few friends I have and how hard they are to find.... the lows came, real low... Crying in my beer low. I couldn't even finish the beer. I came to bed, decided to vent it out and now I'm crashing for the night.
Hopefully tomorrow is a better day. If dick head decides to text me, he will not be getting a reply, there is no excuse to be a dick.
#dontbeadick #lowlows #texted #friends
The following night he met my friend and I and we talked for hours, he listened to me, I listened to him, we were so at ease it was as if we had known each other for years. It didn't hurt that he threw out a few compliments along the way. I am usually pretty hard on myself and for someone to tell me I'm beautiful and have a great personality is amazing.
The last couple of weeks we have texted back and forth almost every day, just a simple how was your day or to say have a great day. On occasion we would have a short dialog back and forth. I was out with a co-worker last night and he made the effort to stop and join us for a beer where we were then he was off to meet his friends. Cool, casual, friendly.
I invited him over to have pizza and watch a movie today and he responded that he was out with friends. Then texted "you should join us". I texted that maybe I would check in later and see where he was and do that, to which he replied "I would really like to see you but I have life obligations to my friends". Wow! What a dick! WTF did that mean and where did it come from? He invited me out, then pretty much said that he doesn't have time for me and that I'm not his friend. Or did I misinterpret that? I can tell you one thing I already have a husband that is not capable of showing any kind of emotion, I sure as shit don't need a friend to turn from nice guy to dick head in a day.
Moral of the story DON'T BE A DICK!
What started out as a great and productive day went to hell in a hand basket. I thought I was fine. Then after drinking beer home, alone thinking about how few friends I have and how hard they are to find.... the lows came, real low... Crying in my beer low. I couldn't even finish the beer. I came to bed, decided to vent it out and now I'm crashing for the night.
Hopefully tomorrow is a better day. If dick head decides to text me, he will not be getting a reply, there is no excuse to be a dick.
#dontbeadick #lowlows #texted #friends
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